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Roomie Issues

Roommate issues are stressing me out. I live with Damon and Alisa. Damon and I have lived together with Katie for a while and Alisa just replaced Katie.
There's always been a disconnect with cleaning with Damon Katie and I and now that Katie and her totalitarian ways are gone, Damon and I are talking about it but it's getting a bit ugly. We were talking about cleaning yesterday and Damons boyfriend was there and I specifically said we should wait to talk till his boyf was gone. Damon said to talk anyway and I ended up bringing up my issue with him. So now I feel bad to have done so in front of his boyf and i'm pretty sure he's pissed about it even though he said to talk then anyway. Also, Damon said something to make me feel bad about bringng cleaning up  but yet preaches that we have good communication. It's not communication if you can't talk about the issues that come between roommies. It's frustrating and stressful stuff. I wish I was better at dealing with it. Cleaning puts such unneccessary notfunstuff in a potentially rewarding roommate situation.

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saucy_21
Jan. 23rd, 2009 05:19 pm (UTC)
oh suuuure no help for me when I lived with James!
saucy_21
Jan. 23rd, 2009 05:19 pm (UTC)
you need a chore list. it was the only thing that helped.
or hire a maid split the cost in 3. or give him the option to hire a maid to do his third.
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